The Fact-to-Attack Paradox — An Integrated Examination of LMT Relational Dynamics and Cognitive Science —

In human relationships, it is common for a straightforward “pointing out of facts” to be perceived as a personal attack or “denial of one’s character.” This paper examines this paradox by integrating Load Minimization Theory (LMT) relational dynamics with cognitive science, particularly predictive coding, cognitive dissonance, and amygdala hijack. When the intensity of emotional signals exceeds the brain’s capacity to process facts, the brain activates an “emotional cushion” to minimize prediction error, instantly converting facts into an attack narrative. Understanding this mechanism opens a path to using the Zero Switch for building more honest, low-load relationships.