A finite forbidden family with superlinear surplus and non-join extremal graphs

We give a common counterexample to two product-structure conjectures in extremal graph theory. More precisely, we construct a fixed nonempty finite family $\mathcal L$ with $p(\mathcal L)=2$ such that, for some $c>0$, \[ \operatorname{ex}(n,\mathcal L)>t_2(n)+cn^{3/2} \] for every sufficiently lar