To have your cake and eat it: social practices in British society and beyond

"To have your cake and eat it" is a British expression. What does it mean exactly? Probably there are multiple interpretations. On the interpretation I work with, a person or group manages to do this if they combine qualities which intuitively or by plausible argument are incompatible. Intuitively, you cannot have A and B, yet they manage to have A and B, contrary to intuition. I believe British society, as well as various other liberal societies, is pervaded by have-your-cake-and-eat-it practices. There are proposed examples in my previous papers or online contributions and I refer to these to illustrate the expression. An appendix includes my attempt at a coding task. (I have placed this paper in "Contradictions in conception and the will," unsure where to place it.)